tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post3569653552506413981..comments2023-10-06T04:55:42.178-04:00Comments on My Life Happenings: Lied To!Beauty Queen Fabuloushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04939554870145896183noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post-46284676381308447742006-05-10T22:58:00.000-04:002006-05-10T22:58:00.000-04:00Hey girl, I am so sorry. But I know how that is. T...Hey girl, I am so sorry. But I know how that is. They always think they can do u any kind of way but then ur suppose to just jump when they decide they want to deal with you. I'm tired of it too. We deserve so much better dont we.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post-5801078616121600432006-05-10T23:23:00.000-04:002006-05-10T23:23:00.000-04:00Sorry Theresa. Men can be such jerks sometimes. ...Sorry Theresa. Men can be such jerks sometimes. Mine is even a jerk sometimes. Hugs to you, ShellyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post-25565022149182322562006-05-11T01:52:00.000-04:002006-05-11T01:52:00.000-04:00i'm sorry hunny guys are jerks.you wait until you ...i'm sorry hunny guys are jerks.<br>you wait until you find a good one<br>he will realize what hes lost one day<br>you do whats right for YOU dont settle for "just anyone"<br>take care<br><3, emilyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post-58482638130797429342006-05-11T06:14:00.000-04:002006-05-11T06:14:00.000-04:00Men suck.... they can be insensitive and thoughtle...Men suck.... they can be insensitive and thoughtless...I am sorry your hurting.<br> <br>hugs,<br>EllenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post-20601220293482082992006-05-11T13:36:00.000-04:002006-05-11T13:36:00.000-04:00Ugh . . . men are retarded. Shit . . . we ladies j...Ugh . . . men are retarded. Shit . . . we ladies just need to stick together. Ha! :-D <br><br>Girly . . . get some distance between the two of you, you are doing the right thing. <br><br>Take Care! Oh, and btw I love the surveys.<br><br>Amanda :)<br>http://journals.aol.com/trickeytricky/CountryMyKindaLivinAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post-89127378750002626062006-05-11T19:12:00.000-04:002006-05-11T19:12:00.000-04:00Sorry you had to be hurt. I always tell Mandy to m...Sorry you had to be hurt. I always tell Mandy to make sure she knows the reason behind the problem before she says something she's sorry can't take back....I try really hard to do that myself. What I'm saying is, that while I don't think you should act like everything is cool between you......it would probably be a good thing to find out why he didn't call, then deal with whatever it is. When we care about someone, we should give them the benefit of the doubt until we know what happened.....then, if he didn't call you for any good reason, you can kick his ass for me too! :) I would definitely tell him the way you have been feeling though and let him now how you want and expect to be treated in a relationship. I'll be praying for you.....let me know how things go.<br><br>Pooh Hugs,<br>Linda~<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post-79136626635215721892006-05-19T22:13:00.000-04:002006-05-19T22:13:00.000-04:00I'm not sure what's with guys mind...it baffles me...I'm not sure what's with guys mind...it baffles me too..believe me. I'm married to one and it's been 16 years. It's like I have to constantly teach him. <br>What I learned is that guy really have NO friggin' idea! really they don't! they must be told, they must be reminded. <br>Maybe you could try to let him know you did not appreciated what he did--like not calling you when he said he would. he probably fell asleep or most likely forgotten and believe me I'm not justifying what he did because I'll be pissed off too. But I'll tell him, if this happened more than 3 times, I'd finally say something like.."look...next time you want to hang out with me or us...and you say you'd call to confirm, I'd appreciate you do what you says you'll do...because I believe you. <br>Would you like it if I say I'll call you back and then you waited and waited and did not hear from me? Do you like to be stood up? if not, then I'd appreciate if you start living up to your words, because when you do, you help make it easier on both of us. If you don't want to go or decided not to go anymore, please have the courtesy to let me know because I'll do the same to you."<br>I know it's long thing to say lol...and sometimes we're too upset to even confront it, but not letting him know, in words (calm way) will not solve this..sometimes it makes it worse. <br>About compliments, you don't have to compliment him and if he appreciates your compliment, he'll noticed that you've stopped complimenting and the way to know is if he comes up to you and compliments you out of the blue! that means he actually notice your compliments before and he misses it. Keep him hanging by simply saying"Thank You!" smile and then walks away. Guys are intimidated and challenged by woman who don't pay attention to them (I don't know..maybe it is just my husband lol!)<br>I hope it works out for you.<br>Gem :-)<br><br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com