tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post5638607190655846315..comments2023-10-06T04:55:42.178-04:00Comments on My Life Happenings: Why do people lie?Beauty Queen Fabuloushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04939554870145896183noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post-22671406156370124832005-08-09T18:17:00.000-04:002005-08-09T18:17:00.000-04:00Hey sweetie! OK, Im gonna give it to you straight....Hey sweetie! OK, Im gonna give it to you straight.<br>Ready?<br>Are you sure your ready?<br>You might not like what Im gonna say...<br>OK...fine.<br>You asked!<br>:)<br><br>Find new friends.<br><br>Period. End of story.<br><br>I have tried to look at all angles and the truth is, you do need a shoulder right now...you need someone to make you smile...not make you stressed. And sure, it might be you some of the time, but thats where the word FRIEND comes in! A friend is someone that loves ya and hangs out with you even when you are yucky. Thats literally what friends are for! <br><br>Sooo. Dont take this ditching as a bad thing. Its a blessing in a strange disguise... Its telling you that its time to move on...to better things...better people.<br><br>I went through the same type of stuff when I was your age...so trust me when I say it's not you.<br><br>Your one grooovy chick that needs to be her own friend first.<br><br>How will everyone else love ya...if your thinking your the problem? Accept the unacceptable and open yourself up to new friends.<br><br>Maybe join a jewlery making class! FUN!!!<br><br>Hope this helps ya...sorry its sooo long. Im such a dork!<br><br>~ShellsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post-38874308029965527342005-08-09T18:45:00.000-04:002005-08-09T18:45:00.000-04:00My daughters can talk on a million im's at a time....My daughters can talk on a million im's at a time...I'm not an im person so I always have that setting off...<br><br>http://derasta.bravejournal.com/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-315406431475942893.post-21568799912849677532005-08-09T21:30:00.000-04:002005-08-09T21:30:00.000-04:00Theresa,You want to know what I think? I think so...Theresa,<br>You want to know what I think? I think somebody sold you a bill of goods that said "you are no good" and you bought it. They convinced you that you're a bad person who is to blame for everything.....and nothing could be further from the truth. From what you have told me, I'm guessing that person is your Mother. I'm not going to step over the line here and say what I think of her, but let me just say this: A Mother is something you are made by nature, but a Mom is something you are made by love. You are a grown woman now and you can think for yourself, you don't need anyone telling you how or what to think anymore. Are you saving your money so you can move out on your own? You need to be in a place where you can see clearly the wonderful young woman that you are. I haven't known you very long, but I can already list many qualities you have. You're loyal, responsible, caring, compassionate, a hard worker, courageous, strong, a good friend, giving, generous, kind spirited, and you want to help others. You're also beautiful, inside & out....so remember it, every day Theresa. Sometimes, with our friends, if we have a bad image of ourself....we can create a problem that isn't there because we see every situation as something we measure our worth by. If Andrea has a one year old, I can tell you right now...it slipped her mind. No more, no less....nothing personal. She probably saw you had called but has been too busy to return it, not remembering that you were going to get together. Not everything that happens is our fault, honey, unless we look at it that way. Chin up and look at the world....you have a lot to offer it.<br>Pooh Hugs,<br>Linda~<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com