So I was not going to write an entry today because of all the surveys I did ....
but I need vent about something ....
I hate being lied to ....
it is one of BIGGEST pet peeves!
Well Mark called me this morning and asked me where I would be around 4:00pm ...
I told him I didn't know ...
and he said where ever I was at, could he hang out with me ....
I said yes, and that I would most likely be at the park with Lisa and the kids because we were going right after Dejya got out of school!
He said okay, and asked which park
(speak of the devil and he calls ... is that not something ... he is calling me right now as I type)
I told him the park across the street from his house ...
he made this grunting noise ....
so I asked him what the hell that was all about ...
he said that he didn't want to be anywhere near there ...
he lives with one of his friends and his friends fiance ...
but he was supposed to move out today ....
Well he said he would call me at 4 ....
Well Lisa called just as I was getting ready to call and tell her Mark would probably be with us ....
(Mind you they have not talked yet since they had their argument .. well they said hi to each other once)
she was not too happy to have him trail along but said it was okay and didn't make a big deal about it!
Well the (CENSORED) never called me!
I HATE the way I always get treated by men!
I don't know what I do to deserve it!
I really don't!
I said to Lisa tonight ....
"I would like to think I'm a really nice person .... so what am I doing wrong to deserve to be treated like this? Why do guys constantly stand me up ... or even lie to me?"
I just don't understand ....
these are the reasons on why I am usually single and not trying to be with a guy .... AT ALL!
Not even even friends with benefits .....
I HATE this (CENSORED)!
WHY?
WHY ME?
btw ... I am DONE talking to him ... I am not answering my phone for a week and see what he does ... maybe he'll see that he did something ... he'll call me at work because he has my work number, but I told Lisa I will hang up once I know it is him ... I want him to realize that I am sick of being treated this way ....... because he also NEVER says ANY compliments to me ... but I ALWAYS have to compliment him! Why?
7 comments:
Hey girl, I am so sorry. But I know how that is. They always think they can do u any kind of way but then ur suppose to just jump when they decide they want to deal with you. I'm tired of it too. We deserve so much better dont we.
Sorry Theresa. Men can be such jerks sometimes. Mine is even a jerk sometimes. Hugs to you, Shelly
i'm sorry hunny guys are jerks.
you wait until you find a good one
he will realize what hes lost one day
you do whats right for YOU dont settle for "just anyone"
take care
<3, emily
Men suck.... they can be insensitive and thoughtless...I am sorry your hurting.
hugs,
Ellen
Ugh . . . men are retarded. Shit . . . we ladies just need to stick together. Ha! :-D
Girly . . . get some distance between the two of you, you are doing the right thing.
Take Care! Oh, and btw I love the surveys.
Amanda :)
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Sorry you had to be hurt. I always tell Mandy to make sure she knows the reason behind the problem before she says something she's sorry can't take back....I try really hard to do that myself. What I'm saying is, that while I don't think you should act like everything is cool between you......it would probably be a good thing to find out why he didn't call, then deal with whatever it is. When we care about someone, we should give them the benefit of the doubt until we know what happened.....then, if he didn't call you for any good reason, you can kick his ass for me too! :) I would definitely tell him the way you have been feeling though and let him now how you want and expect to be treated in a relationship. I'll be praying for you.....let me know how things go.
Pooh Hugs,
Linda~
I'm not sure what's with guys mind...it baffles me too..believe me. I'm married to one and it's been 16 years. It's like I have to constantly teach him.
What I learned is that guy really have NO friggin' idea! really they don't! they must be told, they must be reminded.
Maybe you could try to let him know you did not appreciated what he did--like not calling you when he said he would. he probably fell asleep or most likely forgotten and believe me I'm not justifying what he did because I'll be pissed off too. But I'll tell him, if this happened more than 3 times, I'd finally say something like.."look...next time you want to hang out with me or us...and you say you'd call to confirm, I'd appreciate you do what you says you'll do...because I believe you.
Would you like it if I say I'll call you back and then you waited and waited and did not hear from me? Do you like to be stood up? if not, then I'd appreciate if you start living up to your words, because when you do, you help make it easier on both of us. If you don't want to go or decided not to go anymore, please have the courtesy to let me know because I'll do the same to you."
I know it's long thing to say lol...and sometimes we're too upset to even confront it, but not letting him know, in words (calm way) will not solve this..sometimes it makes it worse.
About compliments, you don't have to compliment him and if he appreciates your compliment, he'll noticed that you've stopped complimenting and the way to know is if he comes up to you and compliments you out of the blue! that means he actually notice your compliments before and he misses it. Keep him hanging by simply saying"Thank You!" smile and then walks away. Guys are intimidated and challenged by woman who don't pay attention to them (I don't know..maybe it is just my husband lol!)
I hope it works out for you.
Gem :-)
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