Well where to start this entry of my 'love' story ... or as my best friend Lisa calls it her soap opera ... she no longer needs the t.v. .... just my stories!
Well last night we talked on the phone several times ... he had to keep hanging up and calling me back .... which I was fine with ... I'm very flexible and understanding! :)
We talked for about 2 hours total .... including the hang up time though!
When he called me back the last time I was half asleep so i didn't answer the phone ... he didn't leave me a voice mail, so then I couldn't go to sleep because then I was worried that he was mad at me for not answering the phone when I just hung the phone up like 15 mins before that ....
then he texted me like 5-10 mins. later 'Answer ur Phone'
I texted him back 'I was asleep'
him 'R u serious'
Me 'Yeah! and the phone scared the hell out of me' (I didn't want to say shit because he tends to be VERY silly and I didn't want him to have any reason to start being silly when all I wanted to do was sleep ... I know that was probably mean of me to say that like so, but it's better to be honest then to lie)
him 'U want me to let u go'
and that was the end of that .... I got the last text but had NO energy whatsoever to text him back! So I left it at that!
I knew that he worked pretty much the same time as me today (him 9:30-4:00 ... me 9:30-5:30) so I figured I would apologize to him .... even though I felt AWFUL!
He came down on his break and was talking to me .... but there is another story that I have to tell you ... I'll write it after this though so I don't lose ya! :)
Then he asked if I could lend him some money because he had no cash and he got paid today but didn't have any cash ... so of course as giving as I am said, "how much do you need?"
him, "five ... oh wait I want a cheesesteak today so 10!"
so I get in my purse and started to get out the money ....
then he says, "wait I can't eat meat today!"
him, "I'm Catholic! See now don't you listen to me?" (he never remembers, or as I say, never pays attention to what I say to him .... and I always say to him, "I told you that 2 days ago when ___________, see you NEVER listen to me!" so he was happy to say it back to me)
me "Hey my family was never really religious so I can't tell anything about ANY religion!"
So he went and got food .... for those of you wondering no it didn't bother me that he did that (borrowed money) because half of us that work in the mall are like that, never have cash on our pay day because we didn't go to the bank yet ... even for those of us, like him & I, that have direct deposit .... we just choose not to pay $2.00 to get $20.00 .... so we usually borrow from a friend)
He came back with soup and a soda ... "I owe you two dollars"
me, "no you don't don't worry about it, but why didn't you get a full meal ... I was not worried about how much you spent?"
he was just being difficult ... however in a very cute way! :)~
He spent his whole break with me :) as if nothing else in the mall really matters to him!
That makes me feel like the center of the universe ... weird I know!
Anyways, he got off at 4 and came down to my store JUST to talk to me .... and be silly!
I said to him, "You do know that I get off at 5:30 and Lisa is taking me home right? You did hear me say that right?"
him, "Yeah but can't I wait until you get off so I can walk out with you?"
(as I stood there wanting to melt) "okay!"
See just how sweet he is .... he waited an hour and a 1/2 JUST to walk me out! How friggin cute is that?
Oh, and before I forget I told him I was sorry for never textin him back last night, I fell asleep .... well he said,"yeah about that you got a point for that 'Theresa one point, Mark zero!'"
me, "ohhhhhhhhh no! you have points too ya know!"
him, "for what?"
me, "well you never pay attention to what I say ..."
him, "yes I do, I just like hearing you repeat yourself!"
me, "right ... I'm not accepting that excuse! you also have a point for lying all the time, you always saying that you don't know who Heather is or Tonia, and you know damn well who they are!"
Well he also told me to call him tonight ... and I have not yet .......... yikes .... I hope I don't loose a point for that :) he he he
Ohhhh about the other story ... sorry this is long .... I hope I didn't lose anyone yet!
I went to Lisa's store to give her a paper to mail to our boss and I look over to my right because I see in the corner of my eye some guy just staring at me!
the guy said, "you get more and more beautiful everyday!"
(he is in the mall all the time .... but he freaks me out, so I said thank you and left)
Then I got back down to my store and begin to finish my counts, when a guy that has been bothering me for about 2 weeks now, walks up and starts talking to me .... just a pointer of how gross this guy is the first day I met him he was talking about us having 'sex' ... his words exactly .... "Damn you live far from here, that's I dip for me if I was to come visit you, and you better have some goods for me to come see you."
for those who don't know ... dip = far away
goods = good in bed
So I am grossed out by this rude guy ... well as bad as I know that lying is ... I had to, to this guy!
He asked for my phone number and I told him that I didn't have a phone number, he asked how I could work 'here' and not have a cell phone(although I do). I told him just because I had a job, does not mean that I needed a cellphone, he agreed and then asked for a home phone number ... I then told the truth, and told him that I don't have one. He asked how do I communicate with my friends, I told him when I needed to talk to them I found my ways ... a phone is a waste of money!
so then he asked if I would take his number and I really didn't know what to say or do, and I had to think fast not just because he was right there and I couldn't ignore him, but also because I had a customer. So I gave him a small piece of paper and a pen, he wrote it down and he gave it to me and said, "make that move and call me so we can get together"
I wanted to throw up .... how can a person be so rude and disrespectful to a female .... shoot to anyone?
This guy thought that whatever he was doing was cute and that I was falling for it! Yuck!
Well I called Lisa immediately at the other store and told her I was going home sick and I was calling Tonia in to cover my shift ... she asked why and I told her about what happened ... I told her before about this guy, I told her he was in today and just had to come say some more nasty stuff to me! BLEH! Well, of course, her response was, "Why didn't you tell him to go to Champs and ask Mark for your number?" I said because I didn't want Mark to think I needed him to 'pretend' to be my boyfriend to scare this guy off .... well she was mad and said that Mark would not have cared and would have been happy to get rid of this freak ... as I was not sure!
Well when Mark walked up the first time to my store today (when he was on his break before he asked for the money) I was talking to Kat (one of the mall housekeeping ladies that stopped by ... she was not working) and I was telling her about the two guys and Mark caught on very quick!
Mark said, "So wait a minute you were hit on today?"
Mark, "by how many guys?"
Me, "so far, 2 disgusting guys!"
I told him I threw the one's number away as soon as he walked away!
Mark said that I should've sent the guy down to his store and told the guy that he was my boyfriend and to ask him for my number and he would've taken care of him .... so he gets mad that these 2 guys were saying stuff to me!
He later said that he could see that if we were to start going together that he would have to always chasing off guys, that he didn't like the fact that since I'm in the middle of the mall that loads of guys say and do shit to me (and the other girls, but their men are to take care of their girls)!
He asked how often I get hit on. I told him not that much but today it just happened back to back!
But I guess I shall leave this entry at what it is now ... I probably lost half of you by now! SORRY!
Nite nite .... stay tuned for more on Mark and I ... as the mall employees are even beginning to pick up what's going on and minding our business and asking if we are going out! Sheesh there is no privacy anymore!