Thursday, May 17, 2007

A lot has changed

WOW!!!

Quite a bit has changed since my last entry ...

I only have ONE best friend ...

one went crazy or something and flipped on me one day for something really stupid ...

and at that point of time I was sick of drama (and still am)

so it ended our 5 year friendship!!!

As for the other one ...

I don't know what happened really!!!

She just stopped talking to me!

She just stopped asking me to do things with her so I stopped asking her for things as well!

I am NOT going to kiss ANYONE'S butt to be my friend ...

I don't care if you are famous ...

I don't care if you are Tyra Banks ...

I am NOT asking anyone to be my friend ..

if you want to be then GREAT ..

if not OH DAMN WELL ...

I don't regret anything though ...

why hold regrets when it doesn't hold a purpose ..

what does it solve?

it can't change anything ...

and at one point it made you happy!!!

So I will just move on from here and be as positive as I can be!!!!

5 comments:

my3gifts said...

I can't say on the one that went as you say crazy, but as for the other one...as friends we all have highs and lows and maybe instead of just dropping her you should reach out to be even more of a friend. Being friends is like any relationship it's NOT 50-50 and despite Dr.Philism it's not always 100-100...sometimes 90-10, and sometimes it's just the opposite.

Friendship's are very precious and if the person meant something to you and their friendship did, fight for it. If it's not something that meant much to you, it probably wasn't a friendship but a good acquaintance to begin or at least end with.

I have friendships that I find I give a lot where they take more or take very little and vice versa and then we seem to flip. I have friendships where we go quiet at times and then we pick back up like no time's been lost.

Unless the friendship goes bad, don't sign off completely. Keep reaching out. It's not about kissing up, it's about being a friend and being there. Loving another person and being loved.

therealslimemmy said...

I agree with the comment below me but sometimes you just have to have falling outs with a person to become better friends
but dont sit there and kiss a persons ass either, lol
ttyl
em

z7snowflake said...

sorry u lost ur friends *hugs*

bhbner2him said...

There are fair weather friends and there are thick & thin friends.  The fair weather friends may add a little spice and fun to life, but the thick and thin friends are the ones that are there when it counts the most.  -  Barbara

mrscammoman316 said...

I def. agree