Tuesday, April 18, 2006

Our First REAL Argument!

Well Mark & I had our first REAL argument!

Sunday night he called me and we talked for a few minutes and he had to go, he said that he would call me back in a little bit .... almost 2 hours had passed and he had not called back so I called him, he said he was on the phone still and that he would call me back.

I told him I was getting ready to go to sleep, he begged me to stay awake because he wanted to talk to me, I told him that I was ready to go to sleep about an hour before that, but he kept begging me to stay awake.

So I told him that I would stay awake for another 1/2 hour and that if he couldn't call back before then to NOT call back at ALL, because I didn't want him to wake me up!

He agreed so we hung up.

A 1/2 hour passed and he didn't call, so I went to sleep!

Well at 1:35am my phone starts vibrating on my pillow, so I looked to see who it was .... of course it was Mark!

So I answered the phone (half asleep) and he acted like it was no biggie ....

"Are you sleeping?"

"Yes Mark! I told you if you didn't call back within a 1/2 hour not to call back at all because I was going to sleep and I didn't want to be woken up!"

"Are you mad?"

"Yes, a little!"

"I'm sorry! Do you want to go to breakfast tomorrow before work?"

(This was his little way of trying to make it better, but that only made it worse, first of all because that would mean that I would have to get up even earlier to do so, and it was already a day that I have to be at work earlier than usual because of the full store count! Plus he knew that Lisa was coming for me in the morning for work and whenever she takes me to work I can not change plans because she never gets my messages and she comes for me, not knowing that I'm not there, and she ends up being late for work!)

"NO!"

"Why not?"

"Because first of all you know I can't change me plans when Lisa comes to get me for work, especially in the morning and I would have to get up earlier for work then and I already have to be there early and I didn't go to bed at the right time to be doing that because someone decided to call back after I told them not too!"

"PLEASE!"

"NO! Do you work tomorrow morning?"

"Yes!"

"Then I'll see you tomorrow, I gotta go, bye!"

I hung the phone up on him, I still am very shocked that he had done that!

So he called me yesterday while I was counting!

"Good morning! Are you still mad at me?"

"Yes!"

"Why?"

"What? Are you serious?"

"Yes. I mean I don't understand why you're mad!"

"Let me put it this way, if I did that to you, would you be mad at me?"

"Yes!"

"Alright then!"

"But I don't want you to be mad at me!"

"Well you should have thought about that before you ignored what I said! And you see what I am saying so don't tell me I shouldn't be mad!"

"But Theresa I don't like you being mad at me!"

"Well then you should not have done that. Why did you do it anyways!"

"I forgot you said that! Honestly!"

So we argued about that for a while! Then I told him I had to go because I was not having a good morning, I dropped trays of jewelry and I wanted to go get breakfast from ed's!

So I stopped down to see him when I took my depoist and he asked if I was still mad, and I told him that I couldn't be mad at him, so he thought I was lying earlier about being mad at him, I told him I was still a little mad but the more I talked to him I really was not that mad and then once I saw his face, I lost all anger that I had!

I told him and Lisa that he is the first guy that I could not be mad at! Every other guy i could have been mad at them for weeks about that! But him once I heard his voice and how sorry he really was I lost all my anger that I had!

Lisa said, "That's becuase you really like him, unlike the rest!"

I am just glad that we are past the whole thing! Hopefully I won't have a reason to be mad at him anytime soon!

5 comments:

bhbner2him said...

I know you aren't gonna like what I have to say, but...Marks sounds more and more to me like a spoilt and wilfull little boy at the best and may prove to be a sweettalking scoundrel.  Seems so much is about "him".  What he wants.  What time is good for him.  What he likes to do.  I hope its just a little imaturity on his part, for your sake.  -  Barbara

inafrnz247 said...

Don't you feel somewhat better now?  Getting it off your chest can really be theraputic!!  Always helps to vent!  It's official now...love isn't perfect!  Michelle

therealslimemmy said...

lol awe! you guys are cute!

xxroxymamaxx said...

I know you were mad, but it's kind of a sweet story. lol  You're first argument.  Probably not the last either.  GBU, Shelly

linnpooh said...

Sorry you had your first fight, but look at it this way.......making up is always the best part :) :) :) I just caught up with your journal....sounds like work is going well, as is your romance, I'm so happy for you honey.

Pooh Hugs,
Linda~